thou shalt not conform when thou could blaze thy own path..

u want, i want

heard from a friend today. bout different wantings and desires in a relationship.

here's the senario;

boy likes gal. gal likes boy. so they try it out for chance. then work interfere, both are bz w work. some times, boy more bz. some times gal's bz. along the time, boy and gal lost the thing tat makes them wanting to start out a rela. boy blames gal not caring enough, gal blames boy not affectionate enough. so by mutual understanding, both go back to friends. cos boy wants a gal who's gonna b there for him and gal wants a guy who's a pillar to count on. she wants this, he wants tat. chemistry dies in the middle.

well, sometimes w the best chemistry in the world, there's still other stuff to consider. expectations..dreams..halucinations. sometimes u kinda lost in the middle of it all, other times u stopped caring.

i used to think too much when it comes to tis sort of stuff, but it aint so. sometimes u just take it one step at a time, a day at a time. and before u know it..a year's passed and u r still together. then u like the familiarity and another year pass by. along the way..hard time comes and good time goes..but u r still together. sometimes u think it aint worth it..but u still hang on. gals mostly will judge on whether he's the one or not, and quarrel over small petty stuff she thought he doesnt care bout her enough and bla bla bla. all i can say is i'm darn lucky i'm not stuck in the middle of tis.

haha..i look at my sis and the bf. sticky like chewing gum. but they seem happy together and willing to make things work out. the amazing thing is both can fight in almost all the shopping complex there are out there..haha. i salute her for tat, cos i dun think i can compromise a lot of myself for another person. like another friend said, mayb i just havent found the guy yet. haha..i'll pray it'll not come too soon.

i guess sometimes in a rela, u need to hav a bias goin on. at first one party gt b advocating it, persuading it, another just goin along for the ride. along the time, the party advocating would hope he/she did all it can to make the other stay..sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesnt. guess tis is life..a motion of if-i-like-the-feel-i'll-hang-along-else-i'll-b-on-my-way. *sigh..i'm tired of all of tis sh*te.

i hope tat one day shuld anything happens..we'll both b really into each other and willing to make things work out; lotsa honesty and open communication and dream sharing. aint too hard..eh?

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