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Forgetting and Forgiving
Somebody told me tat one person cant forgive if they cant forget.
It's not entirely true. I've come to realise that one person can forgive even if they cant forget.
Forgiveness for me is accepting a person has made a mistake or a bundle of mistakes and accepting them back into one's life at that particular moment when one forgives.
Forgetting is let bygone be bygone. No more mentioning it in the future.
I may be able to forgive, but I rarely forgets.
I may not remember sometimes, but I never forgets.
If a person says sorry and asks for my forgiveness, but repeating their mistakes in the future, I'm not likely to forgive after that cos in my opinion, forgiving a person consistently for the same mistakes after they apologizing over and over again is like staying with an abusive partner who hit me once and say sorry, then hit me again and again after that.
I may be weird, but I'm just not into emo-SM. It's too self-destructive for me, plus though I hav lotsa ego and healthy self-esteem to spare, they can also be used up in time.
Thus I'd hav to say; one can forgive, but one rarely forgets. That's why, the person who rarely forgets also hav a hard time sleeping at nite due to the bundles of emotions that they're carrying around.
It's not entirely true. I've come to realise that one person can forgive even if they cant forget.
Forgiveness for me is accepting a person has made a mistake or a bundle of mistakes and accepting them back into one's life at that particular moment when one forgives.
Forgetting is let bygone be bygone. No more mentioning it in the future.
I may be able to forgive, but I rarely forgets.
I may not remember sometimes, but I never forgets.
If a person says sorry and asks for my forgiveness, but repeating their mistakes in the future, I'm not likely to forgive after that cos in my opinion, forgiving a person consistently for the same mistakes after they apologizing over and over again is like staying with an abusive partner who hit me once and say sorry, then hit me again and again after that.
I may be weird, but I'm just not into emo-SM. It's too self-destructive for me, plus though I hav lotsa ego and healthy self-esteem to spare, they can also be used up in time.
Thus I'd hav to say; one can forgive, but one rarely forgets. That's why, the person who rarely forgets also hav a hard time sleeping at nite due to the bundles of emotions that they're carrying around.
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posted by M.E. # 4:39 PM
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