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Nagging Worries
I'm constantly worrying over small little things. It's ingrained in me; I'm female, u see.
My sis was always telling me her insecurity issues like eating habits n stuf. For me, she's healthy physically, only her self-esteem is retarded.
When I was her age, I got this thing u call "Dear Diary". Her english sux, so I guess it's her excuse to complain, it's becoming a broken record nowadays cos I've heard the same issues for like 5 times everytime we tok, but who am I to complain, my life is none-existance for all they care. I'm just a friendly-ear of the neighbourhood. *sigh..
I understand that she's merely depress.
I mean, who wouldnt if they dun like to befriend ppl their own age and only toks to ppl who she deems is interesting enuf.
*sigh..
I'm so afraid of asking her again to make more friends..her mind is so small it scares me sh*tless. She mentioned she only met ppl from her school (who's her age or 17-yr-old-thus-still-babies-not-deserving-of-her-company-yet) and the church mates (who are crazy in her opinion and from wat I heard, pretty crazy in my opinions too. I mean, how can one says that when a baby is born, they are already defined into good and evil?!? stoopid la..).
First of all, age doesnt mean a person is not mature. A person mayb 30+ and still immature. I met many ppl in my programs who are younger than me but acted more mature than I am (course sometimes they are bizarrely weird but tat's ok, cos I tok weird too..)
Second of all, she's lazy. If one's first impression doesnt hit with her, she's stop making effort.
Thirdly, she needs prozac..just joking. She's merely going thru a lot of insecurity phase now, I went thru it in my form 6 period..which is around her age. Sadly I have no one to speak to..thus I read a lot then. I still do. Like wat I said..she's lazy.
Thus, I ask her to go find work if she cant bear the circle of ppl she's meeting now.
Hopefully she'd be able to find friends who suits her enigmatic taste.
Advice to sis : Please dun find friends in the clubs cos they've amnesia problem, u might be a figment of their imagination by the morrow.
posted by M.E. # 6:10 PM
My sis was always telling me her insecurity issues like eating habits n stuf. For me, she's healthy physically, only her self-esteem is retarded.
When I was her age, I got this thing u call "Dear Diary". Her english sux, so I guess it's her excuse to complain, it's becoming a broken record nowadays cos I've heard the same issues for like 5 times everytime we tok, but who am I to complain, my life is none-existance for all they care. I'm just a friendly-ear of the neighbourhood. *sigh..
I understand that she's merely depress.
I mean, who wouldnt if they dun like to befriend ppl their own age and only toks to ppl who she deems is interesting enuf.
*sigh..
I'm so afraid of asking her again to make more friends..her mind is so small it scares me sh*tless. She mentioned she only met ppl from her school (who's her age or 17-yr-old-thus-still-babies-not-deserving-of-her-company-yet) and the church mates (who are crazy in her opinion and from wat I heard, pretty crazy in my opinions too. I mean, how can one says that when a baby is born, they are already defined into good and evil?!? stoopid la..).
First of all, age doesnt mean a person is not mature. A person mayb 30+ and still immature. I met many ppl in my programs who are younger than me but acted more mature than I am (course sometimes they are bizarrely weird but tat's ok, cos I tok weird too..)
Second of all, she's lazy. If one's first impression doesnt hit with her, she's stop making effort.
Thirdly, she needs prozac..just joking. She's merely going thru a lot of insecurity phase now, I went thru it in my form 6 period..which is around her age. Sadly I have no one to speak to..thus I read a lot then. I still do. Like wat I said..she's lazy.
Thus, I ask her to go find work if she cant bear the circle of ppl she's meeting now.
Hopefully she'd be able to find friends who suits her enigmatic taste.
Advice to sis : Please dun find friends in the clubs cos they've amnesia problem, u might be a figment of their imagination by the morrow.
posted by M.E. # 6:10 PM
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